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My Answer Is No... If That's Okay with You : How Women Can Say No and (Still) Feel Good about It by Nanette Gartrell (2008, Hardcover)

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My Answer is No . . . If That's Okay with You: How Women Can Say

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PublisherFree Press

ISBN-101416546936

ISBN-139781416546931

eBay Product ID (ePID)59615071

Product Key Features

Book TitleMy Answer Is No... If That's Okay with You : How Women Can Say No and (Still) Feel Good about It

Number of Pages272 Pages

LanguageEnglish

Publication Year2008

TopicPersonal Growth / General, General, Personality, Personal Growth / Self-Esteem, Interpersonal Relations

GenreFamily & Relationships, Self-Help, Psychology

AuthorNanette Gartrell

FormatHardcover

Dimensions

Item Height1 in

Item Weight13 Oz

Item Length8.4 in

Item Width5.5 in

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Intended AudienceTrade

LCCN2007-015291

Dewey Edition22

Reviews"NO...So it's only two letters, but that tiny word can make the difference between a small raise and the corner office. The dirty little secret is that when it comes to the workplace you don't have to do everything that is asked of you in order to succeed. In fact, setting realistic expectations for yourself and for the people around you is often the key to professional happiness.My Answer Is NOteaches all of us how to set boundaries and reclaim our self-respect by employing that tiny yet potentially life-changing word."-- Caitlin Friedman, coauthor ofThe Girl's Guide to Kicking Your Career into GearandThe Girl's Guide to Being a Boss (Without Being a Bitch), "This book is like having a great therapist at your side -- smart and compassionate with on-the-spot advice on how to set limits in all aspects of your life. Give this book to your daughters as they negotiate their way through school, friendships, and first jobs."-- Rosalind Wiseman, author ofQueen Bees & WannabesandQueenbee Moms & Kingpin Dads, "NO...So it's only two letters, but that tiny word can make the difference between a small raise and the corner office. The dirty little secret is that when it comes to the workplace you don't have to do everything that is asked of you in order to succeed. In fact, setting realistic expectations for yourself and for the people around you is often the key to professional happiness. "My Answer Is NO" teaches all of us how to set boundaries and reclaim our self-respect by employing that tiny yet potentially life-changing word." -- Caitlin Friedman, coauthor of "The Girl's Guide to Kicking Your Career into Gear" and "The Girl's Guide to Being a Boss (Without Being a Bitch)", "Dr. Gartrell provides you with practical tools and tips for saying no with confidence and grace." -- Lois P. Frankel, PhD, author of "Nice Girls Don't Get the Corner Office", "This book is like having a great therapist at your side -- smart and compassionate with on-the-spot advice on how to set limits in all aspects of your life. Give this book to your daughters as they negotiate their way through school, friendships, and first jobs." -- Rosalind Wiseman, author of "Queen Bees & Wannabes" and "Queenbee Moms & Kingpin Dads", "Sound advice and fascinating insights on why we have trouble setting limits as women. Dr. Gartrell shows us that even the most accomplished women in a countless variety of careers are challenged by saying no, and that they, like the rest of us, can learn to do it with conviction and joy." -- Patti Breitman, coauthor ofHow to Say No Without Feeling Guilty, "Women need to maintain healthy boundaries while also preserving life-giving relationships. Dr. Gartrell tells you exactly how to do just that. This information is essential for all women."-- Christiane Northrup, MD, author ofWomen's Bodies, Women's WisdomandThe Wisdom of Menopause, "Dr. Gartrell provides you with practical tools and tips for saying no with confidence and grace."-- Lois P. Frankel, PhD, author ofNice Girls Don't Get the Corner Office, "Sound advice and fascinating insights on why we have trouble setting limits as women. Dr. Gartrell shows us that even the most accomplished women in a countless variety of careers are challenged by saying no, and that they, like the rest of us, can learn to do it with conviction and joy."-- Patti Breitman, coauthor ofHow to Say No Without Feeling Guilty, "Dr. Gartrell provides you with practical tools and tips for saying no with confidence and grace." -- Lois P. Frankel, PhD, author ofNice Girls Don't Get the Corner Office, "NO...So it's only two letters, but that tiny word can make the difference between a small raise and the corner office. The dirty little secret is that when it comes to the workplace you don't have to do everything that is asked of you in order to succeed. In fact, setting realistic expectations for yourself and for the people around you is often the key to professional happiness.My Answer Is NOteaches all of us how to set boundaries and reclaim our self-respect by employing that tiny yet potentially life-changing word." -- Caitlin Friedman, coauthor ofThe Girl's Guide to Kicking Your Career into GearandThe Girl's Guide to Being a Boss (Without Being a Bitch), "This book is like having a great therapist at your side -- smart and compassionate with on-the-spot advice on how to set limits in all aspects of your life. Give this book to your daughters as they negotiate their way through school, friendships, and first jobs." -- Rosalind Wiseman, author ofQueen Bees & WannabesandQueenbee Moms & Kingpin Dads, "Sound advice and fascinating insights on why we have trouble setting limits as women. Dr. Gartrell shows us that even the most accomplished women in a countless variety of careers are challenged by saying no, and that they, like the rest of us, can learn to do it with conviction and joy." -- Patti Breitman, coauthor of "How to Say No Without Feeling Guilty", "Women need to maintain healthy boundaries while also preserving life-giving relationships. Dr. Gartrell tells you exactly how to do just that. This information is essential for all women." -- Christiane Northrup, MD, author of "Women's Bodies, Women's Wisdom" and "The Wisdom of Menopause", "Women need to maintain healthy boundaries while also preserving life-giving relationships. Dr. Gartrell tells you exactly how to do just that. This information is essential for all women." -- Christiane Northrup, MD, author ofWomen's Bodies, Women's WisdomandThe Wisdom of Menopause

Dewey Decimal155.6/33

Table Of Contentchapter one women's ways of NOing (introduction) chapter two there's NO place like home for the holidays (saying NO to parents) chapter three getting to NO you (saying NO to dates and mates) chapter four NOthing personal (saying NO to friends) chapter five opportunity...NOts (when saying NO at work doesn't work for you) chapter six no-nonsense NOs (saying NO at work) chapter seven saying NO when the president calls (saying NO in public service) chapter eight NOblesse oblige (saying NO in the community) chapter nine NOt on your life! (saying NO to assault and harassment) chapter ten Doctor, NO (saying NO to your shrink or doctor) chapter eleven NOble intentions (saying NO as a caregiver) chapter twelve heavens NO! (saying NO to the dead and dying)a final noteacknowledgments

SynopsisAre you afraid you'll hurt the people you care about if you say NO to them? Can you set limits when employees neglect their responsibilities? How about with your boss? When friends ask you to do something you don't want to do, do you invent an elaborate excuse? Do you have a hard time saying NO to an invitation even when you're completely exhausted? Do you have trouble even practicing the sentence "No, Mom, I just can't make it home this holiday"?If any of these scenarios sound familiar, keep reading - you need this book...No is a very simple word -- two letters, one syllable. Yet many women have a hard time saying it without feeling anxious or guilty.In My Answer Is NO...If That's Okay with You, award-winning psychiatrist and author Dr. Nanette Gartrell takes a fresh look at why even the most powerful, accomplished, and successful women find it difficult to say no and offers a revolutionary approach to setting limits without jeopardizing important relationships.Today women are bombarded with messages like "put yourself first" and "stop being a people-pleaser." But this sort of advice is useless to women who value the caring and generosity that prompt them to say yes in the first place. Through personal interviews with a diverse group of talented women, including CEOs, celebrities, physicians, and public officials, Dr. Gartrell shows that women's reluctance to say no stems from valuable traits that they should embrace, such as empathy, sensitivity, and thoughtfulness. With humor and wisdom, Dr. Gartrell reaffirms the psychological importance of compassion and feeling connected, which can often lead a woman to say yes rather than no in order to preserve a relationship or spare someone's feelings. Through entertaining anecdotes and insights from her years of clinical practice, Dr. Gartrell teaches women to honor their best instincts while still maintaining boundaries.My Answer Is NO...If That's Okay with Youoffers creative, practical ways to transform an automatic or reluctant yes into a healthy, respectful no -- and still feel good about it., Are you afraid you'll hurt the people you care about if you say NO to them? Can you set limits when employees neglect their responsibilities? How about with your boss? When friends ask you to do something you don't want to do, do you invent an elaborate excuse? Do you have a hard time saying NO to an invitation even when you're completely exhausted? Do you have trouble even practicing the sentence "No, Mom, I just can't make it home this holiday"? If any of these scenarios sound familiar, keep reading - you need this book... No is a very simple word -- two letters, one syllable. Yet many women have a hard time saying it without feeling anxious or guilty. "In My Answer Is NO...If That's Okay with You," award-winning psychiatrist and author Dr. Nanette Gartrell takes a fresh look at why even the most powerful, accomplished, and successful women find it difficult to say no and offers a revolutionary approach to setting limits without jeopardizing important relationships. Today women are bombarded with messages like "put yourself first" and "stop being a people-pleaser." But this sort of advice is useless to women who value the caring and generosity that prompt them to say yes in the first place. Through personal interviews with a diverse group of talented women, including CEOs, celebrities, physicians, and public officials, Dr. Gartrell shows that women's reluctance to say no stems from valuable traits that they should embrace, such as empathy, sensitivity, and thoughtfulness. With humor and wisdom, Dr. Gartrell reaffirms the psychological importance of compassion and feeling connected, which can often lead a woman to say yes rather than no in order to preserve arelationship or spare someone's feelings. Through entertaining anecdotes and insights from her years of clinical practice, Dr. Gartrell teaches women to honor their best instincts while still maintaining boundaries. "My Answer Is NO...If That's Okay with You" offers creative, practical ways to transform an automatic or reluctant yes into a healthy, respectful no -- and still feel good about it., Through entertaining anecdotes and insights from her years of clinical practice, Dr. Gartrell teaches women to honor their best instincts while still maintaining boundaries. She offers creative, practical ways to transform a knee-jerk Yes into a healthy, respectful No--and to feel good about it.

LC Classification NumberHQ1206.G37 2008