Table Of ContentAcknowledgments Introduction Part I. Nourishing the Roots of Self-Care Chapter 1. Exploring Professional Self-Care: Myths, Mistaken Identities, and Meanings Chapter 2. Our Unique Stressors, Pressures, and Challenges Chapter 3. The "Big Four" Occupational Hazards Chapter 4. Our Ethical Imperative Toward Sustainable Self-Care Chapter 5. Why We Become Psychotherapists and What Sustains Us Chapter 6. Mapping Our Self-Care Values Chapter 7. Identifying and Addressing the Blocks to Being Our Own Best Allies Part II. Flexibly Grounded: Mindful Awareness of Habits, Patterns, and Needs Chapter 8. Developmental and Career Stage Realities Chapter 9. Listening to Our Bodies Chapter 10. Knowing Our Habits of Mind and Emotion Chapter 11. Relational Patterns and Fulfillment of Needs Chapter 12. How's Your Frontal Lobe Doing? and Other Executive Functioning Questions Chapter 13. Money: Our Unspoken Needs, Beliefs, and Habits Chapter 14. Spiritual and Religious Beliefs and Needs Chapter 15. Cultural Influences on Self-Care and Well-Being Chapter 16. Person-Therapist-Work Alignment Part III: Intrinsic Self-Care: Soft Strength, Hidden Resilience Chapter 17. Cultivating Mindful Awareness and Intentionality Chapter 18. Fostering Acceptance, Equanimity, and Acknowledgment of Impermanence Chapter 19. Nurturing Compassion Chapter 20. Encouraging Forgiveness Chapter 21. Gifting Gratitude Chapter 22. Inspiring Laughter, Humor, Joy, and Playfulness Chapter 23. Learning Optimism Part IV: Extrinsic Self-Care: Powerful Practices, Transformational Habits Chapter 24. Biological Foundations of Self-Care I: Sleep and Breath Chapter 25. Biological Foundations of Self-Care II: Movement and Nutrition Chapter 26. Meditation Chapter 27. Subtle Energy Practices Chapter 28. Rest, Time Off, and Recharging Our Batteries Chapter 29. Supportive Connections and Healthy Boundaries Chapter 30. Supporting Our Frontal Lobe for Sustainable Self-Care and Well-Being Chapter 31. Mindful Use of Technology and Media Chapter 32. Personal Grounding and Growth: Making Space for Creative Endeavors, Self-Growth, and Pursuing Our Own Therapy Chapter 33. Professional Grounding and Growth: Seeking Professional Development, Diversity of Experience, and Consultation/Supervision Chapter 34. Navigating Our Work Environment Chapter 35. Enhancing Our Workspace for Better Health Part V. Thriving: Creating Sustainability of Self-Care and Well-Being Chapter 36. Willingness, Readiness, and Motivation to Integrate Self-Care Chapter 37. Integration and Embodiment of Self-Caring Into Everyday Life Chapter 38. The Gifts of Stewardship and Paying It Forward: A Communitarian Approach to Helping Our Fellow Helpers Appendix A. Mindful Self-Care Scale--Clinical Version Appendix B. Selected Resources for Psychotherapists' Professional Development and Well-Being Appendix C. Addressing Our Blocks, Barriers, and Objections to Being Our Own Best Allies Appendix D. Selected Resources for Psychotherapists With a Highly Sensitive Temperament Appendix E. Mindful Check-In Appendix F. Selected Mindfulness and Meditation Resources Appendix G. Selected Subtle Energy Resources and Practices Appendix H. The Rapid Relief Energy Sweep Appendix I. Selected Self-Care Practices to Integrate Throughout the (Work)Day Appendix J. Mindful Self-Caring Plan and Calendar Appendix K. Selected Resources for Healthy Habit Formation and Building a Meaningful Life References Index About the Author
SynopsisSelf-care shouldn't feel like a burden. Professional self-care can be enjoyable, personally meaningful, and sustainably integrated into mental health practitioners' lives. The Thriving Therapist provides an integrative, holistic, and developmentally sensitive path to assist therapists in assessing their unique needs and proactively structuring sustainable self-care practices, in alignment with their values. Included in this book are diverse and vital resources that help practitioners: Go beyond one-off activities to create a self-caring lifestyle; Strengthen the guiding values by which they live and work, in order to prevent burnout and embody wellness; Cultivate mindful awareness of their needs both personal and professional, with special attention to the alignment of the person-practitioner-work environment; Build powerful inner resources such as gratitude, self-compassion, forgiveness, and humor to soothe in response to threats and bounce back from daily challenges; Implement and sustain healthy lifestyle habits that transform "simply getting by" into more easeful and meaningful living, including neurophysiological supports, meditation and subtle energy practices, mindful media consumption, and community-building., Many therapists and counselors suffer under the weight of their clients' mental health struggles. All practitioners must learn to practice self-care. This book addresses the dearth in today's self-care training by presenting a sustainable approach that is integrative, holistic, and developmentally flexible., The Thriving Therapist provides an integrative, holistic, and developmentally sensitive path to assist therapists in assessing their unique needs and proactively structuring sustainable self-care practices, in alignment with their values. Self-care shouldn't feel like a burden. Professional self-care can be enjoyable, personally meaningful, and sustainably integrated into mental health practitioners' lives. Included in this book are diverse and vital resources that help practitioners: Go beyond one-off activities to create a self-caring lifestyle; Strengthen the guiding values by which they live and work, in order to prevent burnout and embody wellness; Cultivate mindful awareness of their needs both personal and professional, with special attention to the alignment of the person-practitioner-work environment; Build powerful inner resources such as gratitude, self-compassion, forgiveness, and humor to soothe in response to threats and bounce back from daily challenges; Implement and sustain healthy lifestyle habits that transform "simply getting by" into more easeful and meaningful living, including neurophysiological supports, meditation and subtle energy practices, mindful media consumption, and community-building., Mental health practitioners occupy a unique and challenging helping role in today's society, and the occupational hazards to their own energy and well-being are significant. From constant worries about clients' well-being, to managing overwhelming workloads, doubts about their own effectiveness, and personal life struggles, practitioners are at risk for overwhelm, burnout, and compassion fatigue. It is therefore imperative for practitioners to treat one another-and themselves-with compassion and care. This book provides an integrative, holistic, and developmentally sensitive path to assist therapists in assessing their unique needs and proactively structuring sustainable self-care practices in alignment with their values. Included in this book are diverse and vital resources that help practitioners, go beyond one-off activities to create a self-caring lifestyle; strengthen the guiding values by which they live and work, in order to prevent burnout and embody wellness; cultivate mindful awareness of their needs both personal and professional, with special attention to the alignment of the person-practitioner-work environment; build powerful inner resources, such as gratitude, self-compassion, forgiveness, and humor, to soothe in response to threats and bounce back from daily challenges; and, implement and sustain healthy lifestyle habits that transform "simply getting by" into more easeful and meaningful living, including neurophysiological supports, meditation and subtle energy practices, mindful media consumption, and community building. Self-care shouldn't feel like a burden. This book shows how professional self-care can be enjoyable, personally meaningful, and sustainably integrated in practitioners' lives. Book jacket., Nearly half of all mental health providers have histories of abuse and family dysfunction, and almost one in five has experienced suicidal ideation. Many therapists and counselors suffer under the weight of their clients' mental health struggles. All practitioners must learn to practice self-care. Mental health providers are mindful listeners, problem-solvers, curious inquisitors, supporters, perspective-shifters, consultants, diagnosticians, body regulators, cheerleaders, coaches, guides, and healers. To do all this requires considerable personal reserves. Caring for themselves, as people and professionals, is imperative. This book addresses the dearth in today's self-care training by presenting a sustainable approach that is integrative, holistic, and developmentally flexible. When therapists feel deserving of self-care, when their values orient and shape their self-care behaviors and mindset, when mindful awareness of their needs comes frequently and with relative ease, and when their routines, practices, and activities are integrated rather than sporadic and fragmented, they can begin to practice sustainable self-care.