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Item specifics
- Condition
- Release Year
- 2022
- ISBN
- 9781524744854
- Book Title
- But You're Still So Young : How Thirtysomethings Are Redefining Adulthood
- Publisher
- Penguin Publishing Group
- Item Length
- 8.2 in
- Publication Year
- 2022
- Format
- Trade Paperback
- Language
- English
- Item Height
- 0.7 in
- Genre
- Family & Relationships, Social Science, Psychology
- Topic
- Developmental / Adulthood & Aging, Sociology / General, Life Stages / General
- Item Weight
- 6.8 Oz
- Item Width
- 5.5 in
- Number of Pages
- 240 Pages
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Product Identifiers
Publisher
Penguin Publishing Group
ISBN-10
1524744859
ISBN-13
9781524744854
eBay Product ID (ePID)
11050418820
Product Key Features
Book Title
But You're Still So Young : How Thirtysomethings Are Redefining Adulthood
Number of Pages
240 Pages
Language
English
Topic
Developmental / Adulthood & Aging, Sociology / General, Life Stages / General
Publication Year
2022
Genre
Family & Relationships, Social Science, Psychology
Format
Trade Paperback
Dimensions
Item Height
0.7 in
Item Weight
6.8 Oz
Item Length
8.2 in
Item Width
5.5 in
Additional Product Features
Intended Audience
Trade
LCCN
2020-039795
Dewey Edition
23
Reviews
" In the 1950s, sociologists came up with a checklist for entering adulthood: finish school, leave home, make your own money, marry, and become a parent. . . . In her thoughtful and well-paced evaluation of 'adulthood,' Schaefer explores the struggle today's ascendant adults face in getting anywhere near these goals 'on time.'" -- The New York Times Book Review "Schaefer mixes social science, psychology, original reporting, and personal anecdotes into a work of nonfiction that is as compact and refreshing as a soft-serve ice cream cone. . . . Clearheaded and full of heart, But You're Still So Young offers a gentle indictment of a broken system and also a soothing message: Nobody's got it all figured out." -- Vogue , "The Best Books to Read in 2021" "A sharp and empathetic investigation into what being in your thirties means today. Weaving together personal history, original reporting, and cultural analysis, Schaefer tackles five of the major milestones we've been told define adulthood--finishing school, leaving home, getting married, gaining financial independence, and having kids--and explores their modern significance, presenting a compelling argument that these achievements aren't actually as meaningful as we've been led to believe. It's a must-read for anyone who's ever considered bucking tradition--or anyone who'd like to better understand why this isn't a bad thing." -- Arianna Rebolini, BuzzFeed "Kayleen Schaefer's But You're Still So Young challenges outdated ideas about the traditional markers of adulthood with a potent combination of wit and a keen observational eye." -- PopSugar , "25 Best New Books of March" "A thought-provoking read." --OK! Magazine " But You're Still So Young is a balm to the soul with extra special salience in uncertain times. Kayleen Schaefer weaves together eight vivid portraits of living out a decade 'no one has given a name to' in a time when we're neither too young nor too old; when we're searching for what we want to do, who we want to spend our time with, and who we are, all while facing rampant job insecurity, rising debts, and the threat of 'geriatric' pregnancies. Schaefer is a candid guide throughout, as she unveils her own experience as a woman who has 'not fully transitioned to adulthood.' How deeply relatable! I just love this book." --Susannah Cahalan, New York Times bestselling author of Brain on Fire and The Great Pretender "Kayleen Schaefer masterfully and tenderly explores the contradictions, confusions, and freedoms for modern thirtysomethings across a wide spectrum of backgrounds. This thoughtful collection of stories, research, and personal experience is equal parts educational and insightful, and will no doubt comfort anyone who feels like they are still growing up--so, all of us. Kayleen Schaefer brilliantly reframes the 'messiness' of modern adulthood into something much more empowering: the opportunity to create the lives we really want." --Mari Andrew, New York Times bestselling author of Am I There Yet? "[Schaefer's] conversational writing style will draw in readers, especially those who enjoyed her previous book." -- Booklist
Dewey Decimal
305.242
Synopsis
Sociologists have identified the five markers of adulthood as: finishing school, leaving home, marriage, gaining financial independence, and having kids. But repeated economic upheaval, rising debt, decreasing marriage rates, fertility treatments, and a more open-minded society have all led to a shifting timeline today. So why are we measuring 'adulthood' by the same metrics that were relied upon fifty years ago? The thirtysomethings in this book envisioned their thirties differently than how they are actually living them. And as Schaefer and her sources show, not being able to do everything isn't a sign of a life gone wrong., One of . . . Vogue 's "Best of 2021" -- BuzzFeed 's "Most Anticipated 2021" -- The Week 's "Must Reads in 2021" -- PopSugar 's "A Running List of the Best Books of 2021" From the author of Text Me When You Get Home, the acclaimed celebration of friendship, comes a timely and essential look at what it means to be a thirtysomething . . . and how it is more okay than ever to not have every box checked off. The traditional "check list" of becoming an adult has existed for decades. Sociologists have long identified these markers of adulthood as: completing school, leaving home, establishing a career/becoming financially independent, getting married, and having children. But the signifiers of being in our thirties today are not the same--repeated economic upheaval, rising debt, decreasing marriage rates, fertility treatments, and a more open-minded society have all led to a shifting definition of adulthood. But You're Still So Young cleverly shows how thirtysomethings have rethought these five major life events. Schaefer describes her own journey through her thirties--including a nonlinear career path, financial struggles, romantic mistakes, and an unconventional path to parenthood--shares findings from data research, and conducts interviews nationwide. For each milestone, the book highlights men and women from various backgrounds, from around the country, and delves into their experiences navigating an ever-changing financial landscape and evolving societal expectations. The thirtysomethings in this book envisioned their thirties differently than how they are actually living them. He thought he would be done with his degree; she thought she'd be married; they thought they'd be famous comedians; and everyone thought they would have more money. Schaefer uses her smart narrative framing and relatable voice to show how the thirties have changed from the cultural stereotypes around them, and how they are a radically different experience for Americans now than they were for any other generation. And as Schaefer and her sources show, not being able to do everything isn't a sign of a life gone wrong. Being open to going sideways or upside down or backward means finding importance and value in many different ways of living.
LC Classification Number
HQ799.95.S32 2022
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- j***2 (60)- Feedback left by buyer.Past monthVerified purchase☆☆☆ Seller. Is not the picture of actual recieved item. Listing photo was pulled from internet and used as placeholder, according to sellers listing. Thats on me for buying the cheapest one without looking at listing fully. Would have been better to not use another persons photo on seller's listing as the specific guide book advertised has reflective bits, the one i recieved did not.. At least it arrived and is decent enough to use and look at. Packed ok. Shipped promptly. Thank you.
- k***i (36)- Feedback left by buyer.Past 6 monthsVerified purchaseFantastic price, faster shipping than expected, item as described. However, packaging was a thin plastic envelope instead of bubble/ cardboard. Book arrived new yet slightly damaged. Not worth asking for a return due to the very low price, yet would suggest to seller/ future buyers to have better packaging for shipping. Thanks.
- e***u (4494)- Feedback left by buyer.Past monthVerified purchaseWell the stock photo was just that, a stock photo and the item did not include the other material shown, which I had asked about. A chance you take. Otherwise, in good shape, shipped promptly, plastic bag envelope (nothing wrong with that for the price, but subject to beatings by the PO dolts. Yes, i will still buy from them if the price is reasonable.
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- j***2 (60)- Feedback left by buyer.Past monthVerified purchase☆☆☆ Seller. Is not the picture of actual recieved item. Listing photo was pulled from internet and used as placeholder, according to sellers listing. Thats on me for buying the cheapest one without looking at listing fully. Would have been better to not use another persons photo on seller's listing as the specific guide book advertised has reflective bits, the one i recieved did not.. At least it arrived and is decent enough to use and look at. Packed ok. Shipped promptly. Thank you.
- k***i (36)- Feedback left by buyer.Past 6 monthsVerified purchaseFantastic price, faster shipping than expected, item as described. However, packaging was a thin plastic envelope instead of bubble/ cardboard. Book arrived new yet slightly damaged. Not worth asking for a return due to the very low price, yet would suggest to seller/ future buyers to have better packaging for shipping. Thanks.
- e***u (4494)- Feedback left by buyer.Past monthVerified purchaseWell the stock photo was just that, a stock photo and the item did not include the other material shown, which I had asked about. A chance you take. Otherwise, in good shape, shipped promptly, plastic bag envelope (nothing wrong with that for the price, but subject to beatings by the PO dolts. Yes, i will still buy from them if the price is reasonable.