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Publication Date
2018-01-23
Pages
336
ISBN
9781250088567
Book Title
This Is How It Always Is : a Novel
Publisher
Holt & Company, Henry
Item Length
8.3 in
Publication Year
2018
Format
Trade Paperback
Language
English
Item Height
0.8 in
Author
Laurie Frankel
Genre
Fiction
Topic
Family Life, Literary
Item Weight
10.2 Oz
Item Width
6.4 in
Number of Pages
336 Pages
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Publisher
Holt & Company, Henry
ISBN-10
1250088569
ISBN-13
9781250088567
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237610852

Product Key Features

Book Title
This Is How It Always Is : a Novel
Number of Pages
336 Pages
Language
English
Topic
Family Life, Literary
Publication Year
2018
Genre
Fiction
Author
Laurie Frankel
Format
Trade Paperback

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Item Height
0.8 in
Item Weight
10.2 Oz
Item Length
8.3 in
Item Width
6.4 in

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Trade
Reviews
"Big-hearted...In the lead for the most sensitively and sincerely told story of 2017." - People , "Book of the Week" "Deeply satisfying...An intimate family story...Day-to-day parenting dilemmas are where Frankel shines." -The New York Times Book Review "Brave, complicated, occasionally horrifying and frequently very funny...Frankel is a first-rate storyteller." - Seattle Times "Frankel has tackled this controversial topic in a warm, funny and honest way and one that will undoubtedly spark thought and conversation." - The Fort Worth Star-Telegram "A novel of great empathy and compassion that transcends politics...This is a family that you will take into your heart and-like all friends-you will welcome the changes that they bring to your life." - The Seattle Review of Books "A story about the challenges of parenting and love, period... This beautiful story is deeply personal, a heart-rending glimpse of an author writing her way to understanding." - BookPage "Sly and charming...Comes at the perfect time... This Is How It Always Is explores the travails of a modern family, where challenges about a child's gender are the same as any other struggles of growing up." - Shelf Awareness
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New York Times Bestseller The Reese Witherspoon x Hello Sunshine Book Club Pick "Every once in a while, I read a book that opens my eyes in a way I never expected." --Reese Witherspoon (Reese's Book Club x Hello Sunshine book pick) People Magazine 's Top 10 Books of 2017 Amazon's Best Books of 2017: Top 20 Amazon's Best Literature and Fiction of 2017 Bustle's 17 Books Every Woman Should Read From 2017 PopSugar's Our Favorite Books of the Year (So Far) Refinery29's Best Books of the Year So Far BookBrowse's The 20 Best Books of 2017 Pacific Northwest Book Awards Finalist The Globe and Mail 's Top 100 Books of 2017 Longlisted for 2019 International DUBLIN Literary Award "It made me laugh, it made me cry, it made me think." --Liane Moriarty, #1 New York Times bestselling author of Big Little Lies This is how a family keeps a secret...and how that secret ends up keeping them. This is how a family lives happily ever after...until happily ever after becomes complicated. This is how children change...and then change the world. This is Claude. He's five years old, the youngest of five brothers, and loves peanut butter sandwiches. He also loves wearing a dress, and dreams of being a princess. When he grows up, Claude says, he wants to be a girl. Rosie and Penn want Claude to be whoever Claude wants to be. They're just not sure they're ready to share that with the world. Soon the entire family is keeping Claude's secret. Until one day it explodes. Laurie Frankel's This Is How It Always Is is a novel about revelations, transformations, fairy tales, and family. And it's about the ways this is how it always is: Change is always hard and miraculous and hard again, parenting is always a leap into the unknown with crossed fingers and full hearts, children grow but not always according to plan. And families with secrets don't get to keep them forever., New York Times Bestseller The Reese Witherspoon x Hello Sunshine Book Club Pick "Every once in a while, I read a book that opens my eyes in a way I never expected." --Reese Witherspoon (Reese's Book Club x Hello Sunshine book pick) People Magazine 's Top 10 Books of 2017 Bustle's 17 Books Every Woman Should Read From 2017 PopSugar's Our Favorite Books of the Year (So Far) Refinery29's Best Books of the Year So Far BookBrowse's The 20 Best Books of 2017 Pacific Northwest Book Awards Finalist The Globe and Mail 's Top 100 Books of 2017 Longlisted for 2019 International DUBLIN Literary Award "It made me laugh, it made me cry, it made me think." --Liane Moriarty, #1 New York Times bestselling author of Big Little Lies This is how a family keeps a secret...and how that secret ends up keeping them. This is how a family lives happily ever after...until happily ever after becomes complicated. This is how children change...and then change the world. This is Claude. He's five years old, the youngest of five brothers, and loves peanut butter sandwiches. He also loves wearing a dress, and dreams of being a princess. When he grows up, Claude says, he wants to be a girl. Rosie and Penn want Claude to be whoever Claude wants to be. They're just not sure they're ready to share that with the world. Soon the entire family is keeping Claude's secret. Until one day it explodes. Laurie Frankel's This Is How It Always Is is a novel about revelations, transformations, fairy tales, and family. And it's about the ways this is how it always is: Change is always hard and miraculous and hard again, parenting is always a leap into the unknown with crossed fingers and full hearts, children grow but not always according to plan. And families with secrets don't get to keep them forever.

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    Book was "nearly new" and "as described" in listing. The advertised price was fair and a good value. Unfortunately, the seller's shipping partner was very slow to get the book packaged and shipped. Shipping took too long, and the tracking info gave no reliable info on shipping date, time in transit or expected delivery. Seller did everything right, but their shipping partner needs improvement. I recommend this seller to other eBay buyers....... just make sure you're okay with the shipping terms.
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    The listing was for a hardcover version of this book; however, I received a paperback. The Seller replied quickly to my question about this issue and issued a full refund - and let me keep the book. So, a diligent Seller for sure - and well packaged and reasonable timing on shipping. Thank you for the refund, and as you suggested, I'll likely donate this volume and seek the hardcover.
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    This 2DVD set is in perfect condition. Cover art and case like new. Both DVDs played with no flaws. Description was listed as “Good”; I would describe it as “Very Good”, basically Like New. Delivery was super fast and packaging was excellent. The DVD case was wrapped well, then put in a cardboard envelope that was sturdy and hard to open (this is NOT a negative!). I have purchased from this company a few times and have always been very satisfied. Prices are great.

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