ReviewsPublishers Weeklyon-lineWeiner Davis offers a frank and reassuring guide for couples struggling with the "desire doldrums"...Her "field-tested" tips are sensible rather than earth-shattering-talk openly, but in the hard-to-talk-about realm of sex, very welcome indeed., Dr. Gary SmalleySmalleyonline.comI love this book. It is the antidote to the distance spouses feel when differences in sexual desire wreak havoc in their marriages. Discover the road back to true intimacy and connection., Dr. Laura SchlessingerAuthor ofTen Stupid Things Couples Do to Mess Up Their RelationshipsI am tremendously impressed with Weiner Davis's profound understanding of the sexual and relational quagmires so many couples fall into with their misconceptions. This book will definitely help readers to understand their own feelings, needs, and responses. But even more importantly, it will help them understand the role of sexual intimacy in keeping marriages strong., Diane Solleewww.smartmarriages.comLeave it to the Divorce Buster -- the woman who has rescued so many from seemingly hopeless marriages -- to crack the code on the most vexing and paradoxical problem facing couples. There is nothing more frustrating than to live in a sex-starved marriage -- to sit down to a banquet every night only to realize you have no appetite -- that you don't even feel like picking up your fork. The first step to regaining your appetite is to buy this book. The second is to read it. The third, well...you'll see! Bon appetit!, Pat LoveFrom the ForewordOnly someone with Michele Weiner Davis's expertise could write about the sexual drama that goes on behind the bedroom door with this much power. She's got the facts straight about what it takes to breathe life back into a relationship...her strength and inspiration come through loud and clear on the pages., Dr. Laura BermanCo-author ofFor Women Only: A Revolutionary Guide to Overcoming Sexual Dysfunction and Reclaiming Your Sex LifeMichele Weiner Davis does a fantastic job of empathizing with and enlightening both partners in the sex-starved marriage. She highlights key issues and offers great tips for moving beyond the tragic stalemate in which so many partners find themselves., Howard J. Markman, Ph.D.Co-author,Fighting for Your MarriageMichele has done it again! For couples struggling with sexual problems, and most do so from time to time, this is the first book I will recommend!
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SynopsisIt is estimated that one of every three married couples struggles with problems associated with mismatched sexual desire. Do you? If you want to stop fighting about sex and revitalize your intimate connection with your spouse, then you need this book. ButThe Sex-Starved Marriageis not just another book explaining the reasons you or your spouse might not be in the mood for sex. Bestselling author Michele Weiner Davis will help you understand why being complacent or bitter about ho-hum sex might cost you your marriage, and with her acclaimed psychobabble-free, straight-shooting advice, she'll show you how to bring the spark back into your bedroom and into your relationship.Because relationship expert Weiner Davis is convinced that feeling sexy is a two-person job, she looks at the problem of -- and the solution to -- low sexual desire from a couple's perspective. Whether you're someone whose passion has faded or someone who's been hungering for touch, you'll learn life-altering lessons about bridging the desire gap and restoring intimacy and friendship to your marriage. And because Weiner Davis knows that one spouse is often more motivated than the other to work on a relationship, she offers creative ways to inspire your partner to change.Separate chapters address the spouse who's hot, the one who's not, and then both together. If you're the spouse with a lagging libido, you're far from alone. And if you're a man, you'll be surprised to learn that staggering numbers of men, even men whose sexual machinery works just fine, "get headaches" too!If you're the low-desire spouse, you'll learn about the physiological and psychological factors, including unresolved relationship issues, that may contribute to the chill in your bedroom. You'll learn the truth about sexual desire: that for millions of men or women it doesn't just happen; you have tomakeit happen. Finally, you'll find specific, pragmatic, and often provocative solutions to help you discover the siren or seducer within.If you're the more highly sexed partner, you'll breathe a sigh of relief. At last someone understands your feelings about the void in your marriage. Discover why your pleas for touch have fallen upon deaf ears and why your approach to the lull in your sexual relationship could be a sexual turnoff. Most important, you'll find tools you can use to reach out in ways that will make your spouse more responsive. Finally, if your partner is willing, you will learn how to keep the flame of desire burningtogether.Full of moving firsthand accounts from couples who have struggled with the erosion of sexual desire and rebuilt their passionate connection,The Sex-Starved Marriagewill give you and your spouse the inspiration, encouragement, and answers you need to find your way out of a sex-starved marriage.
LC Classification NumberHQ734.W43743 2003