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Unfollow : A Memoir of Loving and Leaving the Westboro Baptist Church by Megan Phelps-Roper (2019, Hardcover)
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PublisherFarrar, Straus & Giroux
ISBN-100374275831
ISBN-139780374275839
eBay Product ID (ePID)15038298140
Product Key Features
Book TitleUnfollow : a Memoir of Loving and Leaving the Westboro Baptist Church
Number of Pages304 Pages
LanguageEnglish
Publication Year2019
TopicPersonal Memoirs, Fundamentalism, Religious, General, Christianity / Baptist, Religion, Politics & State
GenreReligion, Biography & Autobiography
AuthorMegan Phelps-Roper
FormatHardcover
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Item Height1 in
Item Weight18 Oz
Item Length9.4 in
Item Width6.4 in
Additional Product Features
Intended AudienceTrade
LCCN2019-018856
Dewey Edition23
Reviews"Rarely do you come across someone with the courage and clarity of Megan Phelps-Roper. From her story, we can learn things sorely needed in our age: empathy, openness, and how we can best build bridges across divided lines." --Chris Anderson, Head of TED "Megan Phelps-Roper is one of the most inspiring women I have ever met. If you want to see how a girl raised on religious fanaticism and sectarian hatred can be cured by the power of honest reasoning, read this book." -- Sam Harris , author of The Four Horsemen and The End of Faith "Megan Phelps-Roper finds a way to tell the story of the girl she was raised to be from the perspective of the woman she became, without rewriting history or losing touch with the earnestness that made everything in her world seem OK, if not downright righteous, at the time. Despite a fundamental transformation of epic proportions, Megan's core, her soul , remains the same throughout: kind, passionate, and open. Her process is wildly brave and incredibly thoughtful and this book gives us incomparable insight into a world we all, and yet none of us, know. It will leave you holding your heart." -- Sarah Silverman , actress and comedian, host of I Love You, America with Sarah Silverman "Megan's story embodies the power of patience, listening, and empathy in this time of extreme intolerance and hatred of one's ideological enemies. It is, quite simply, exactly what the world needs right now." --Mark Duplass "Megan Phelps Roper has guts -- maybe more guts than can comfortably be contained within one adult human. First, as a member of the scary Westboro Baptist Church, she had the guts to get into the faces of people she disapproved of, gays and Jews and less fiery Christians, and tell them why God hated them. Then - and this is where you and I come in - she had the guts to listen and to think, and to decide that everything she had built her life upon was wrong. This is a beautiful, gripping book about a singular soul, and an unexpected redemption." -- Nick Hornby , author of High Fidelity and How to Be Good "Unfollow speaks eloquently to our divided times: the tale of a young girl born into a family whose name is a byword for bigotry and how she grew into a compassionate young woman, leaving her family behind and forging an entirely new understanding of the world and her place in it. Full of insight, thoughtfulness and vivid detail, it is also the debut of a gifted new writer. For anyone who enjoyed Hillbilly Elegy or Educated, Unfollow is an essential text, a testament to the fact that there is no-one immune to childhood indoctrination, but also to the ever-present possibility of profound change." -- Louis Theroux , documentary filmmaker for the BBC "Megan Phelps Roper is a beautiful writer, and her journey -- from the Westboro Baptist Church to becoming one of the most empathetic, thoughtful, humanistic writers around -- is exceptional and inspiring. I met Megan shortly after she left her church. She said, 'I want to do good, but I don't know how.' With Unfollow, she's figured out how." -- Jon Ronson , author of So You've Been Publicly Shamed and Them: Adventures with Extremists, "Rarely do you come across someone with the courage and clarity of Megan Phelps-Roper. From her story, we can learn things sorely needed in our age: empathy, openness, and how we can best build bridges across divided lines." --Chris Anderson, Head of TED "Megan Phelps-Roper is one of the most inspiring women I have ever met. If you want to see how a girl raised on religious fanaticism and sectarian hatred can be cured by the power of honest reasoning, read this book." -- Sam Harris , author of The Four Horsemen and The End of Faith "Megan Phelps-Roper finds a way to tell the story of the girl she was raised to be from the perspective of the woman she became, without rewriting history or losing touch with the earnestness that made everything in her world seem OK, if not downright righteous, at the time. Despite a fundamental transformation of epic proportions, Megan's core, her soul , remains the same throughout: kind, passionate, and open. Her process is wildly brave and incredibly thoughtful and this book gives us incomparable insight into a world we all, and yet none of us, know. It will leave you holding your heart." -- Sarah Silverman , actress and comedian, host of I Love You, America with Sarah Silverman "Megan Phelps Roper has guts -- maybe more guts than can comfortably be contained within one adult human. First, as a member of the scary Westboro Baptist Church, she had the guts to get into the faces of people she disapproved of, gays and Jews and less fiery Christians, and tell them why God hated them. Then - and this is where you and I come in - she had the guts to listen and to think, and to decide that everything she had built her life upon was wrong. This is a beautiful, gripping book about a singular soul, and an unexpected redemption." -- Nick Hornby , author of High Fidelity and How to Be Good "Unfollow speaks eloquently to our divided times: the tale of a young girl born into a family whose name is a byword for bigotry and how she grew into a compassionate young woman, leaving her family behind and forging an entirely new understanding of the world and her place in it. Full of insight, thoughtfulness and vivid detail, it is also the debut of a gifted new writer. For anyone who enjoyed Hillbilly Elegy or Educated, Unfollow is an essential text, a testament to the fact that there is no-one immune to childhood indoctrination, but also to the ever-present possibility of profound change." -- Louis Thoreaux , documentary filmmaker for the BBC "Megan Phelps Roper is a beautiful writer, and her journey -- from the Westboro Baptist Church to becoming one of the most empathetic, thoughtful, humanistic writers around -- is exceptional and inspiring. I met Megan shortly after she left her church. She said, 'I want to do good, but I don't know how.' With Unfollow, she's figured out how." -- Jon Ronson , author of So You've Been Publicly Shamed and Them: Adventures with Extremists, "Rarely do you come across someone with the courage and clarity of Megan Phelps-Roper. From her story, we can learn things sorely needed in our age: empathy, openness, and how we can best build bridges across divided lines." --Chris Anderson, Head of TED, "Phelps-Roper''s intelligence and compassion shine throughout with electric prose ... She admirably explicates the worldview of the Westboro Baptist Church while humanizing its members, and recounts a classic coming-of-age story without resorting to cliché or condescending to her former self." -- Publishers Weekly (starred review) "This memoir about growing up, coming out of denial and leaving the Westboro Baptist Church is written with such heart-wrenching tenderness and narrative control, you''ll hang on every word even if you already know how it ends." -- BookPage "Rarely do you come across someone with the courage and clarity of Megan Phelps-Roper. From her story, we can learn things sorely needed in our age: empathy, openness, and how we can best build bridges across divided lines." --Chris Anderson, Head of TED "Megan Phelps-Roper is one of the most inspiring women I have ever met. If you want to see how a girl raised on religious fanaticism and sectarian hatred can be cured by the power of honest reasoning, read this book." -- Sam Harris , author of The Four Horsemen and The End of Faith "Megan Phelps-Roper finds a way to tell the story of the girl she was raised to be from the perspective of the woman she became, without rewriting history or losing touch with the earnestness that made everything in her world seem OK, if not downright righteous, at the time. Despite a fundamental transformation of epic proportions, Megan''s core, her soul , remains the same throughout: kind, passionate, and open. Her process is wildly brave and incredibly thoughtful and this book gives us incomparable insight into a world we all, and yet none of us, know. It will leave you holding your heart." -- Sarah Silverman , actress and comedian, host of I Love You, America with Sarah Silverman "Megan''s story embodies the power of patience, listening, and empathy in this time of extreme intolerance and hatred of one''s ideological enemies. It is, quite simply, exactly what the world needs right now." --Mark Duplass, actor and film director "Megan Phelps Roper has guts -- maybe more guts than can comfortably be contained within one adult human. First, as a member of the scary Westboro Baptist Church, she had the guts to get into the faces of people she disapproved of, gays and Jews and less fiery Christians, and tell them why God hated them. Then - and this is where you and I come in - she had the guts to listen and to think, and to decide that everything she had built her life upon was wrong. This is a beautiful, gripping book about a singular soul, and an unexpected redemption." -- Nick Hornby , author of High Fidelity and How to Be Good "Unfollow speaks eloquently to our divided times: the tale of a young girl born into a family whose name is a byword for bigotry and how she grew into a compassionate young woman, leaving her family behind and forging an entirely new understanding of the world and her place in it. Full of insight, thoughtfulness and vivid detail, it is also the debut of a gifted new writer. For anyone who enjoyed Hillbilly Elegy or Educated, Unfollow is an essential text, a testament to the fact that there is no-one immune to childhood indoctrination, but also to the ever-present possibility of profound change." -- Louis Theroux , documentary filmmaker for the BBC "Megan Phelps Roper is a beautiful writer, and her journey -- from the Westboro Baptist Church to becoming one of the most empathetic, thoughtful, humanistic writers around -- is exceptional and inspiring. I met Megan shortly after she left her church. She said, ''I want to do good, but I don''t know how.'' With Unfollow, she''s figured out how." -- Jon Ronson , author of So You''ve Been Publicly Shamed and Them: Adventures with Extremists, "Phelps-Roper''s intelligence and compassion shine throughout with electric prose ... She admirably explicates the worldview of the Westboro Baptist Church while humanizing its members, and recounts a classic coming-of-age story without resorting to cliché or condescending to her former self." -- Publishers Weekly (starred review) "Phelps-Roper is a masterful writer. She writes movingly about the searing pain of separation from those she continues to love, and beautifully about how freeing herself from a theology of hate has given her life greater meaning and purpose. In a time of growing intolerance, Unfollow is essential reading." -- BookPage (starred review) "Rarely do you come across someone with the courage and clarity of Megan Phelps-Roper. From her story, we can learn things sorely needed in our age: empathy, openness, and how we can best build bridges across divided lines." --Chris Anderson, Head of TED "Megan Phelps-Roper is one of the most inspiring women I have ever met. If you want to see how a girl raised on religious fanaticism and sectarian hatred can be cured by the power of honest reasoning, read this book." -- Sam Harris , author of The Four Horsemen and The End of Faith "Megan Phelps-Roper finds a way to tell the story of the girl she was raised to be from the perspective of the woman she became, without rewriting history or losing touch with the earnestness that made everything in her world seem OK, if not downright righteous, at the time. Despite a fundamental transformation of epic proportions, Megan''s core, her soul , remains the same throughout: kind, passionate, and open. Her process is wildly brave and incredibly thoughtful and this book gives us incomparable insight into a world we all, and yet none of us, know. It will leave you holding your heart." -- Sarah Silverman , actress and comedian, host of I Love You, America with Sarah Silverman "Megan''s story embodies the power of patience, listening, and empathy in this time of extreme intolerance and hatred of one''s ideological enemies. It is, quite simply, exactly what the world needs right now." --Mark Duplass, actor and film director "Megan Phelps Roper has guts -- maybe more guts than can comfortably be contained within one adult human. First, as a member of the scary Westboro Baptist Church, she had the guts to get into the faces of people she disapproved of, gays and Jews and less fiery Christians, and tell them why God hated them. Then - and this is where you and I come in - she had the guts to listen and to think, and to decide that everything she had built her life upon was wrong. This is a beautiful, gripping book about a singular soul, and an unexpected redemption." -- Nick Hornby , author of High Fidelity and How to Be Good "Unfollow speaks eloquently to our divided times: the tale of a young girl born into a family whose name is a byword for bigotry and how she grew into a compassionate young woman, leaving her family behind and forging an entirely new understanding of the world and her place in it. Full of insight, thoughtfulness and vivid detail, it is also the debut of a gifted new writer. For anyone who enjoyed Hillbilly Elegy or Educated, Unfollow is an essential text, a testament to the fact that there is no-one immune to childhood indoctrination, but also to the ever-present possibility of profound change." -- Louis Theroux , documentary filmmaker for the BBC "Megan Phelps Roper is a beautiful writer, and her journey -- from the Westboro Baptist Church to becoming one of the most empathetic, thoughtful, humanistic writers around -- is exceptional and inspiring. I met Megan shortly after she left her church. She said, ''I want to do good, but I don''t know how.'' With Unfollow, she''s figured out how." -- Jon Ronson , author of So You''ve Been Publicly Shamed and Them: Adventures with Extremists, "Rarely do you come across someone with the courage and clarity of Megan Phelps-Roper. From her story, we can learn things sorely needed in our age: empathy, openness, and how we can best build bridges across divided lines." --Chris Anderson, Head of TED "Megan Phelps-Roper is one of the most inspiring women I have ever met. If you want to see how a girl raised on religious fanaticism and sectarian hatred can be cured by the power of honest reasoning, read this book." -- Sam Harris , author of The Four Horsemen and The End of Faith "Megan Phelps-Roper finds a way to tell the story of the girl she was raised to be from the perspective of the woman she became, without rewriting history or losing touch with the earnestness that made everything in her world seem OK, if not downright righteous, at the time. Despite a fundamental transformation of epic proportions, Megan's core, her soul , remains the same throughout: kind, passionate, and open. Her process is wildly brave and incredibly thoughtful and this book gives us incomparable insight into a world we all, and yet none of us, know. It will leave you holding your heart." -- Sarah Silverman , actress and comedian, host of I Love You, America with Sarah Silverman "Megan Phelps Roper has guts -- maybe more guts than can comfortably be contained within one adult human. First, as a member of the scary Westboro Baptist Church, she had the guts to get into the faces of people she disapproved of, gays and Jews and less fiery Christians, and tell them why God hated them. Then - and this is where you and I come in - she had the guts to listen and to think, and to decide that everything she had built her life upon was wrong. This is a beautiful, gripping book about a singular soul, and an unexpected redemption." -- Nick Hornby , author of High Fidelity and How to Be Good "Unfollow speaks eloquently to our divided times: the tale of a young girl born into a family whose name is a byword for bigotry and how she grew into a compassionate young woman, leaving her family behind and forging an entirely new understanding of the world and her place in it. Full of insight, thoughtfulness and vivid detail, it is also the debut of a gifted new writer. For anyone who enjoyed Hillbilly Elegy or Educated, Unfollow is an essential text, a testament to the fact that there is no-one immune to childhood indoctrination, but also to the ever-present possibility of profound change." -- Louis Theroux , documentary filmmaker for the BBC "Megan Phelps Roper is a beautiful writer, and her journey -- from the Westboro Baptist Church to becoming one of the most empathetic, thoughtful, humanistic writers around -- is exceptional and inspiring. I met Megan shortly after she left her church. She said, 'I want to do good, but I don't know how.' With Unfollow, she's figured out how." -- Jon Ronson , author of So You've Been Publicly Shamed and Them: Adventures with Extremists, "Phelps-Roper's intelligence and compassion shine throughout with electric prose ... She admirably explicates the worldview of the Westboro Baptist Church while humanizing its members, and recounts a classic coming-of-age story without resorting to cliché or condescending to her former self." -- Publishers Weekly (starred review) "Rarely do you come across someone with the courage and clarity of Megan Phelps-Roper. From her story, we can learn things sorely needed in our age: empathy, openness, and how we can best build bridges across divided lines." --Chris Anderson, Head of TED "Megan Phelps-Roper is one of the most inspiring women I have ever met. If you want to see how a girl raised on religious fanaticism and sectarian hatred can be cured by the power of honest reasoning, read this book." -- Sam Harris , author of The Four Horsemen and The End of Faith "Megan Phelps-Roper finds a way to tell the story of the girl she was raised to be from the perspective of the woman she became, without rewriting history or losing touch with the earnestness that made everything in her world seem OK, if not downright righteous, at the time. Despite a fundamental transformation of epic proportions, Megan's core, her soul , remains the same throughout: kind, passionate, and open. Her process is wildly brave and incredibly thoughtful and this book gives us incomparable insight into a world we all, and yet none of us, know. It will leave you holding your heart." -- Sarah Silverman , actress and comedian, host of I Love You, America with Sarah Silverman "Megan's story embodies the power of patience, listening, and empathy in this time of extreme intolerance and hatred of one's ideological enemies. It is, quite simply, exactly what the world needs right now." --Mark Duplass, actor and film director "Megan Phelps Roper has guts -- maybe more guts than can comfortably be contained within one adult human. First, as a member of the scary Westboro Baptist Church, she had the guts to get into the faces of people she disapproved of, gays and Jews and less fiery Christians, and tell them why God hated them. Then - and this is where you and I come in - she had the guts to listen and to think, and to decide that everything she had built her life upon was wrong. This is a beautiful, gripping book about a singular soul, and an unexpected redemption." -- Nick Hornby , author of High Fidelity and How to Be Good "Unfollow speaks eloquently to our divided times: the tale of a young girl born into a family whose name is a byword for bigotry and how she grew into a compassionate young woman, leaving her family behind and forging an entirely new understanding of the world and her place in it. Full of insight, thoughtfulness and vivid detail, it is also the debut of a gifted new writer. For anyone who enjoyed Hillbilly Elegy or Educated, Unfollow is an essential text, a testament to the fact that there is no-one immune to childhood indoctrination, but also to the ever-present possibility of profound change." -- Louis Theroux , documentary filmmaker for the BBC "Megan Phelps Roper is a beautiful writer, and her journey -- from the Westboro Baptist Church to becoming one of the most empathetic, thoughtful, humanistic writers around -- is exceptional and inspiring. I met Megan shortly after she left her church. She said, 'I want to do good, but I don't know how.' With Unfollow, she's figured out how." -- Jon Ronson , author of So You've Been Publicly Shamed and Them: Adventures with Extremists, "Phelps-Roper's intelligence and compassion shine throughout with electric prose ... She admirably explicates the worldview of the Westboro Baptist Church while humanizing its members, and recounts a classic coming-of-age story without resorting to cliché or condescending to her former self." -- Publishers Weekly (starred review) "Rarely do you come across someone with the courage and clarity of Megan Phelps-Roper. From her story, we can learn things sorely needed in our age: empathy, openness, and how we can best build bridges across divided lines." --Chris Anderson, Head of TED "Megan Phelps-Roper is one of the most inspiring women I have ever met. If you want to see how a girl raised on religious fanaticism and sectarian hatred can be cured by the power of honest reasoning, read this book." -- Sam Harris , author of The Four Horsemen and The End of Faith "Megan Phelps-Roper finds a way to tell the story of the girl she was raised to be from the perspective of the woman she became, without rewriting history or losing touch with the earnestness that made everything in her world seem OK, if not downright righteous, at the time. Despite a fundamental transformation of epic proportions, Megan's core, her soul , remains the same throughout: kind, passionate, and open. Her process is wildly brave and incredibly thoughtful and this book gives us incomparable insight into a world we all, and yet none of us, know. It will leave you holding your heart." -- Sarah Silverman , actress and comedian, host of I Love You, America with Sarah Silverman "Megan's story embodies the power of patience, listening, and empathy in this time of extreme intolerance and hatred of one's ideological enemies. It is, quite simply, exactly what the world needs right now." --Mark Duplass "Megan Phelps Roper has guts -- maybe more guts than can comfortably be contained within one adult human. First, as a member of the scary Westboro Baptist Church, she had the guts to get into the faces of people she disapproved of, gays and Jews and less fiery Christians, and tell them why God hated them. Then - and this is where you and I come in - she had the guts to listen and to think, and to decide that everything she had built her life upon was wrong. This is a beautiful, gripping book about a singular soul, and an unexpected redemption." -- Nick Hornby , author of High Fidelity and How to Be Good "Unfollow speaks eloquently to our divided times: the tale of a young girl born into a family whose name is a byword for bigotry and how she grew into a compassionate young woman, leaving her family behind and forging an entirely new understanding of the world and her place in it. Full of insight, thoughtfulness and vivid detail, it is also the debut of a gifted new writer. For anyone who enjoyed Hillbilly Elegy or Educated, Unfollow is an essential text, a testament to the fact that there is no-one immune to childhood indoctrination, but also to the ever-present possibility of profound change." -- Louis Theroux , documentary filmmaker for the BBC "Megan Phelps Roper is a beautiful writer, and her journey -- from the Westboro Baptist Church to becoming one of the most empathetic, thoughtful, humanistic writers around -- is exceptional and inspiring. I met Megan shortly after she left her church. She said, 'I want to do good, but I don't know how.' With Unfollow, she's figured out how." -- Jon Ronson , author of So You've Been Publicly Shamed and Them: Adventures with Extremists
Dewey Decimal286.5092
SynopsisThe activist and TED speaker Megan Phelps-Roper reveals her life growing up in the most hated family in America At the age of five, Megan Phelps-Roper began protesting homosexuality and other alleged vices alongside fellow members of the Westboro Baptist Church in Topeka, Kansas. Founded by her grandfather and consisting almost entirely of her extended family, the tiny group would gain worldwide notoriety for its pickets at military funerals and celebrations of death and tragedy. As Phelps-Roper grew up, she saw that church members were close companions and accomplished debaters, applying the logic of predestination and the language of the King James Bible to everyday life with aplomb--which, as the church's Twitter spokeswoman, she learned to do with great skill. Soon, however, dialogue on Twitter caused her to begin doubting the church's leaders and message: If humans were sinful and fallible, how could the church itself be so confident about its beliefs? As she digitally jousted with critics, she started to wonder if sometimes they had a point--and then she began exchanging messages with a man who would help change her life. A gripping memoir of escaping extremism and falling in love, Unfollow relates Phelps-Roper's moral awakening, her departure from the church, and how she exchanged the absolutes she grew up with for new forms of warmth and community. Rich with suspense and thoughtful reflection, Phelps-Roper's life story exposes the dangers of black-and-white thinking and the need for true humility in a time of angry polarization.
LC Classification NumberBX6495.P475A3 2019
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- Jan 14, 2020
Not really a great read.
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- May 14, 2020
Intriguing and moving.
I no idea to what the book was about. Once I grasped the story I could hardly put it down.Verified purchase: YesCondition: Pre-owned
