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An Empty Lap by Smolowe, Jill

by Smolowe, Jill | PB | VeryGood
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Condition
Very Good
A book that does not look new and has been read but is in excellent condition. No obvious damage to the cover, with the dust jacket (if applicable) included for hard covers. No missing or damaged pages, no creases or tears, and no underlining/highlighting of text or writing in the margins. May be very minimal identifying marks on the inside cover. Very minimal wear and tear. See the seller’s listing for full details and description of any imperfections. See all condition definitionsopens in a new window or tab
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“May have limited writing in cover pages. Pages are unmarked. ~ ThriftBooks: Read More, Spend ...
Binding
Paperback
Weight
0 lbs
Product Group
Book
IsTextBook
No
ISBN
9780671004378
Book Title
Empty Lap
Publisher
Atria Books
Item Length
8.5 in
Publication Year
1998
Format
Trade Paperback
Language
English
Item Height
0.7 in
Author
Jill Smolowe
Genre
Family & Relationships, Biography & Autobiography, Medical
Topic
Reproductive Medicine & Technology, Alternative Family, Parenting / General, Personal Memoirs, Adoption & Fostering
Item Weight
10.8 Oz
Item Width
5.5 in
Number of Pages
288 Pages
Category

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Product Identifiers

Publisher
Atria Books
ISBN-10
0671004379
ISBN-13
9780671004378
eBay Product ID (ePID)
430284

Product Key Features

Book Title
Empty Lap
Number of Pages
288 Pages
Language
English
Publication Year
1998
Topic
Reproductive Medicine & Technology, Alternative Family, Parenting / General, Personal Memoirs, Adoption & Fostering
Genre
Family & Relationships, Biography & Autobiography, Medical
Author
Jill Smolowe
Format
Trade Paperback

Dimensions

Item Height
0.7 in
Item Weight
10.8 Oz
Item Length
8.5 in
Item Width
5.5 in

Additional Product Features

Intended Audience
Trade
LCCN
97-026214
Reviews
Entertainment Weekly Engrossing....Smolowe's unromanticized understanding of what it takes for two highly opinionated adults to work through some of coupledom's most stressful challenges is what gives this book its appeal....She makes compelling general-interest reading out of a special-interest subject., Kay Redfield Jamison Author of An Unquiet Mind and professor of psychiatry, The Johns Hopkins School of Medicine Extraordinarily moving, and wonderfully written, An Empty Lap is one woman's account of love, hope, lost hope, and then, finally, great and well-earned joy. The book is completely engaging. Jill Smolowe and her husband endured much to adopt a child but, when at last they succeed, their delight is utterly and boundlessly contagious. The complexities and resilience of their love story are woven together in a riveting way., Deborah Tannen, Ph.D.Author ofYou Just Don't UnderstandandTalking from 9 to 5ReadingAn Empty Lapis like staying up all night listening to a friend filling you in on the important events in her life. You know how things turned out, but you want to hear all the details. Jill Smolowe's honesty is compelling. It's like a thriller, only the terrain is emotional., Kay Redfield JamisonAuthor ofAn Unquiet Mindand professor of psychiatry, The Johns Hopkins School of MedicineExtraordinarily moving, and wonderfully written,An Empty Lapis one woman's account of love, hope, lost hope, and then, finally, great and well-earned joy. The book is completely engaging. Jill Smolowe and her husband endured much to adopt a child but, when at last they succeed, their delight is utterly and boundlessly contagious. The complexities and resilience of their love story are woven together in a riveting way., Deborah Tannen, Ph.D. Author of You Just Don't Understand and Talking from 9 to 5 Reading An Empty Lap is like staying up all night listening to a friend filling you in on the important events in her life. You know how things turned out, but you want to hear all the details. Jill Smolowe's honesty is compelling. It's like a thriller, only the terrain is emotional., Kay Redfield JamisonAuthor of An Unquiet Mind and professor of psychiatry, The Johns Hopkins School of MedicineExtraordinarily moving, and wonderfully written, An Empty Lap is one woman's account of love, hope, lost hope, and then, finally, great and well-earned joy. The book is completely engaging. Jill Smolowe and her husband endured much to adopt a child but, when at last they succeed, their delight is utterly and boundlessly contagious. The complexities and resilience of their love story are woven together in a riveting way., Entertainment WeeklyEngrossing....Smolowe's unromanticized understanding of what it takes for two highly opinionated adults to work through some of coupledom's most stressful challenges is what gives this book its appeal....She makes compelling general-interest reading out of a special-interest subject.
Dewey Edition
21
TitleLeading
An
Dewey Decimal
362.73/4/092 B
Synopsis
"Joe and I had been forthright about children. I was pretty sure I wanted them, Joe was pretty sure he didn't. Since we each perceived in the other some room for movement, the difference didn't worry us. Then priorities shifted, needs changed...." In her late thirties, journalist Jill Smolowe's life and career at Time magazine was on track. Her husband, Joe, was still her most trusted confidante and best friend. And now that she and Joe had decided finally to have a child, Jill assumed the pregnancy that had come so easily to all the women in her family would be her own next chapter. But nature had a different script in mind. As her quest for a child swerved from the roller coaster of infertility procedures toward the baffling maze of adoption options, Jill's desperation deepened -- while Joe's resistance to children only hardened. In the fog of depression, disappointments, and dead ends, their marriage began to founder. Then, halfway around the world, in Yangzhou, China, she encountered a future she'd never imagined might be hers. Honest and intimate, An Empty Lap is as much a window on a marriage as on a high-stakes baby chase. Compelling, beautifully told and as insightful as a novel, it's filled with emotions that anyone who has yearned for a child will recognize.

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