Reviews
Instead of lecturing us about what we're doing wrong, Jessica Lahey reveals what she did wrong with her own children and students -- and how she systematically reformed her ways. A refreshing, practical book for parents who want to raise resilient kids but aren't sure how to start., Instead of lecturing us about what we're doing wrong, Jessica Lahey reveals what she did wrong with her own children and students-and how she systematically reformed her ways. A refreshing, practical book for parents who want to raise resilient kids but aren't sure how to start., This fascinating, thought-provoking book shows that to help children succeed, we must allow them to fail. Essential reading for parents, teachers, coaches, psychologists, and anyone else who wants to guide children towards lives of independence, creativity, and courage., It's hard to overstate the importance of this book. The Gift of Failure is beautifully written; it's deeply researched; but most of all it's the one book we all need to read if we want to instill the next generation with confidence and joy., "Gripping...how can teachers snatch back their critical role and give children the necessary space to fail? They could start by making parents read Lahey." -- New York Times Book Review "Instead of lecturing us about what we're doing wrong, Jessica Lahey reveals what she did wrong with her own children and students--and how she systematically reformed her ways. A refreshing, practical book for parents who want to raise resilient kids but aren't sure how to start." -- Amanda Ripley, author of The Smartest Kids in the World "This fascinating, thought-provoking book shows that to help children succeed, we must allow them to fail. Essential reading for parents, teachers, coaches, psychologists, and anyone else who wants to guide children towards lives of independence, creativity, and courage." -- Gretchen Rubin, author of The Happiness Project "It's hard to overstate the importance of this book. The Gift of Failure is beautifully written; it's deeply researched; but most of all it's the one book we all need to read if we want to instill the next generation with confidence and joy." -- Susan Cain, author of Quiet "Lahey offers one of the most important parenting messages of our times: Unless we allow our children to learn how to take on challenges, they won't thrive in school and in life. Her extremely helpful book tells her story, compiles research, and provides hundreds of doable suggestions." -- Ellen Galinsky, author of Mind in the Making "How can we help our children grow to be resourceful, happy adults? Lahey shows in practical terms how to know what your child is ready for and how to offer support even as you encourage autonomy. A wise, engaging book, steeped in scientific research and tempered with common sense." -- Daniel T. Willingham, PhD, author of Why Don't Students Like School? "Through an artful combination of anecdote and research, Lahey delivers a lesson that moms and dads badly need to learn: that failure is vital to children's success. Any parent who pines for a saner, more informed approach to child-rearing should read this book." -- Jennifer Senior, author of All Joy and No Fun "Lahey has many wise and helpful words...ones that any parent can and should embrace." -- Publishers Weekly, Lahey offers one of the most important parenting messages of our times: Unless we allow our children to learn how to take on challenges, they won't thrive in school and in life. Her extremely helpful book tells her story, compiles research, and provides hundreds of doable suggestions., Jessica Lahey aims for the heart of every parent's fondest wish: How can I help this child grow to be a resourceful, happy adult? The simple answer is 'they must sometimes fail,' but Lahey takes us several layers deeper than that, showing in practical terms how to know what your child is ready for, and how to offer support even as you encourage autonomy. This is a wise, engaging book, steeped in scientific research and tempered with common sense., How can we help our children grow to be resourceful, happy adults? Lahey shows in practical terms how to know what your child is ready for and how to offer support even as you encourage autonomy. A wise, engaging book, steeped in scientific research and tempered with common sense., Through an artful combination of anecdote and research, Lahey delivers a lesson that moms and dads badly need to learn: that failure is vital to children's success. Any parent who pines for a saner, more informed approach to child-rearing should read this book.
