Reviews
" Imperfect Endings raises difficult questions about love and loyalty, but it is written with such style and sympathy that it is difficult to put down." - San Francisco Chronicle.com, "Zoe Carter is a luminous writer with a dramatic story to tell. With wisdom, poetry and dark humor, Zoe describes her ailing mother's courageous decision to end her life. In years to come, plenty of sons and daughters will face the same moral and practical dilemmas as Zoe's family; Imperfect Endings, with its wit and love, will provide an invaluable resource, as well as remain a fascinating, fabulously compelling read."-- Jennifer Finney Boylan, author ofShe's Not ThereandI'm Looking Through You, "A beautifully written story of pain and loss, spiked with subtle humor and gentle wisdom." -- Judy Bachrach, thecheckoutline.org, "I could quote from the book all day. . . but instead Ie(tm)ll just recommend that those intrigued by the subject spend a little time with the ailing but ferocious Margaret and her daughters. A decision to die can sound romantic or it can sound repugnant. Carter shows us what it was like in reality."e" Paula Span, The New York Times.com, “The questions that rise from her story are urgent, important and timely&sharply focused, engaged with essential ethical questions&the end of the book is so full of grace and acceptance that one might forget the memoir began with such urgent, roaring questions.� San Francisco Chronicle, "Zoe Carter is a luminous writer with a dramatic story to tell. With wisdom, poetry and dark humor, Zoe describes her ailing mother's courageous decision to end her life. In years to come, plenty of sons and daughters will face the same moral and practical dilemmas as Zoe's family; Imperfect Endings, with its wit and love, will provide an invaluable resource, as well as remain a fascinating, fabulously compelling read." Jennifer Finney Boylan, author of She's Not There and I'm Looking Through You, "I love this book! Zoe Carter has taken what could be a very sad story and turned it into something beautiful and incredibly insightful. Her portrayal of her mother is wonderful, and reveals in moving and illuminating detail a slice of Washington life." --Kate Lehrer, author of Confessions of a Bigamist: A Novel, "Articulate and exceptionally written, focusing on humor and emotional honesty. . . . It's quite a wonderful experience to read about Margaret's life and, in the end, [ Imperfect Endings ] becomes a tribute to a lovely woman who made a brave choice. . . . If you read this, you will never forget it." -Bookreporter.com, “Carter’s memoir about her terminally ill mother’s decision to end her own life becomes a bittersweet tale of how Carter and her sisters coped with their mother’s botched efforts, their own sibling rivalries, the ongoing controversy over assisted suicide, and the hard, final task of acceptance.� Elle, "Imperfect Endingsraises difficult questions about love and loyalty, but it is written with such style and sympathy that it is difficult to put down."--San Francisco Chronicle.com, "The questions that rise from her story are urgent, important and timely...sharply focused, engaged with essential ethical questions...the end of the book is so full of grace and acceptance that one might forget the memoir began with such urgent, roaring questions." -- San Francisco Chronicle, "First-time memoirist Carter comes close to perfection in this chronicle of her mother's quest to orchestrate her own assisted suicide. . . .With surprising humor and sensitivity, Carter presents the struggle to come to terms with mortality and family dynamics." -Library Journal (starred review), "An engaging and insightful tale of familial love, understanding, and forgiveness, shot through with a surprising amount of wit." e" The Boston Globe, "Zoe Carter is a luminous writer with a dramatic story to tell. With wisdom, poetry and dark humor, Zoe describes her ailing mother's courageous decision to end her life. In years to come, plenty of sons and daughters will face the same moral and practical dilemmas as Zoe's family; Imperfect Endings, with its wit and love, will provide an invaluable resource, as well as remain a fascinating, fabulously compelling read." -Jennifer Finney Boylan, author of She's Not There and I'm Looking Through You, "Death, by definition, is final. . . .[T]he process of dying is where the real pain, physical and emotional, lies. Carter expertly examines this turmoil and all its accompanying angst, frustration, resentment and introspection. . . . The depth and breadth of the analysis sets this book apart." e"CultureMob.com, "First-time memoirist Carter comes close to perfection in this chronicle of her mother's quest to orchestrate her own assisted suicide. . . .With surprising humor and sensitivity, Carter presents the struggle to come to terms with mortality and family dynamics." --Library Journal (starred review), "A beautifully written story of pain and loss, spiked with subtle humor and gentle wisdom." -Judy Bachrach, thecheckoutline.org, "The questions that rise from her story are urgent, important and timely&sharply focused, engaged with essential ethical questions&the end of the book is so full of grace and acceptance that one might forget the memoir began with such urgent, roaring questions." - San Francisco Chronicle, " Imperfect Endings raises difficult questions about love and loyalty, but it is written with such style and sympathy that it is difficult to put down.e e" San Francisco Chronicle.com, "I could quote from the book all day. . . but instead I’ll just recommend that those intrigued by the subject spend a little time with the ailing but ferocious Margaret and her daughters. A decision to die can sound romantic or it can sound repugnant. Carter shows us what it was like in reality." Paula Span, The New York Times.com, "Carter's memoir about her terminally ill mother's decision to end her own life becomes a bittersweet tale of how Carter and her sisters coped with their mother's botched efforts, their own sibling rivalries, the ongoing controversy over assisted suicide, and the hard, final task of acceptance." --Elle, "Articulate and exceptionally written, focusing on humor and emotional honesty. . . . It's quite a wonderful experience to read about Margaret's life and, in the end, [ Imperfect Endings ] becomes a tribute to a lovely woman who made a brave choice. . . . If you read this, you will never forget it." e"Bookreporter.com, "I could quote from the book all day. . . but instead I'll just recommend that those intrigued by the subject spend a little time with the ailing but ferocious Margaret and her daughters. A decision to die can sound romantic or it can sound repugnant. Carter shows us what it was like in reality."-- Paula Span, The New York Times.com, "Death, by definition, is final. . . . [T]he process of dying is where the real pain, physical and emotional, lies. Carter expertly examines this turmoil and all its accompanying angst, frustration, resentment and introspection. . . . The depth and breadth of the analysis sets this book apart." -CultureMob.com, "The questions that rise from her story are urgent, important and timely...sharply focused, engaged with essential ethical questions...the end of the book is so full of grace and acceptance that one might forget the memoir began with such urgent, roaring questions." - San Francisco Chronicle, "Carter coaxes beauty from the bleak in this book about the months after Margaret, who has Parkinson's, tells her three girls she plans to 'end things' and wants them to be there when she does. Ultimately, in losing her, Carter finds a mother she never thought she'd know." - People, "First-time memoirist Carter comes close to perfection in this chronicle of her mothere(tm)s quest to orchestrate her own assisted suicide. . . .With surprising humor and sensitivity, Carter presents the struggle to come to terms with mortality and family dynamics." e"Library Journal (starred review), "The questions that rise from her story are urgent, important and timely…sharply focused, engaged with essential ethical questions…the end of the book is so full of grace and acceptance that one might forget the memoir began with such urgent, roaring questions." - San Francisco Chronicle, eoeCarter coaxes beauty from the bleak in this book about the months after Margaret, who has Parkinsone(tm)s, tells her three girls she plans to e~end thingse(tm) and wants them to be there when she does. Ultimately, in losing her, Carter finds a mother she never thought shee(tm)d know.e e" People, "I love this book! Zoe Carter has taken what could be a very sad story and turned it into something beautiful and incredibly insightful. Her portrayal of her mother is wonderful, and reveals in moving and illuminating detail a slice of Washington life."-- Kate Lehrer, author ofConfessions of a Bigamist: A Novel, "An engaging and insightful tale of familial love, understanding, and forgiveness, shot through with a surprising amount of wit." - The Boston Globe, "In her wise and moving memoir, journalist Zoe Carter tackles a difficult subject -- her mother's decision to end her own life after years of severe illness. Under what circumstances can her family make peace with this choice? Many of us will find ourselves facing this kind of dilemma as our parents move towards death, and I cannot imagine a better guide than this thoughtful, compassionate book." e"Julie Metz, author of Perfection: A Memoir of Betrayal and Renewal, "Carter's memoir about her terminally ill mother's decision to end her own life becomes a bittersweet tale of how Carter and her sisters coped with their mother's botched efforts, their own sibling rivalries, the ongoing controversy over assisted suicide, and the hard, final task of acceptance." -Elle, "I love this book! Zoe Carter has taken what could be a very sad story and turned it into something beautiful and incredibly insightful. Her portrayal of her mother is wonderful, and reveals in moving and illuminating detail a slice of Washington life." e"Kate Lehrer, author of Confessions of a Bigamist: A Novel, "An engaging and insightful tale of familial love, understanding, and forgiveness, shot through with a surprising amount of wit." The Boston Globe, "First-time memoirist Carter comes close to perfection in this chronicle of her mother's quest to orchestrate her own assisted suicide. . . .With surprising humor and sensitivity, Carter presents the struggle to come to terms with mortality and family dynamics."--Library Journal(starred review), “Carter coaxes beauty from the bleak in this book about the months after Margaret, who has Parkinson’s, tells her three girls she plans to ‘end things’ and wants them to be there when she does. Ultimately, in losing her, Carter finds a mother she never thought she’d know.� People, "In her wise and moving memoir, journalist Zoe Carter tackles a difficult subject -- her mother's decision to end her own life after years of severe illness. Under what circumstances can her family make peace with this choice? Many of us will find ourselves facing this kind of dilemma as our parents move towards death, and I cannot imagine a better guide than this thoughtful, compassionate book."-- Julie Metz, author ofPerfection: A Memoir of Betrayal and Renewal, "A beautifully written story of pain and loss, spiked with subtle humor and gentle wisdom." e"Judy Bachrach, thecheckoutline.org, "First-time memoirist Carter comes close to perfection in this chronicle of her mother’s quest to orchestrate her own assisted suicide. . . .With surprising humor and sensitivity, Carter presents the struggle to come to terms with mortality and family dynamics." Library Journal (starred review), "A beautifully written story of pain and loss, spiked with subtle humor and gentle wisdom." --Judy Bachrach, thecheckoutline.org, "Carter coaxes beauty from the bleak in this book about the months after Margaret, who has Parkinson's, tells her three girls she plans to 'end things' and wants them to be there when she does. Ultimately, in losing her, Carter finds a mother she never thought she'd know." -- People, "Death, by definition, is final. . . . [T]he process of dying is where the real pain, physical and emotional, lies. Carter expertly examines this turmoil and all its accompanying angst, frustration, resentment and introspection. . . . The depth and breadth of the analysis sets this book apart." --CultureMob.com, "Death, by definition, is final. . . . [T]he process of dying is where the real pain, physical and emotional, lies. Carter expertly examines this turmoil and all its accompanying angst, frustration, resentment and introspection. . . . The depth and breadth of the analysis sets this book apart." --CultureMob.com, "Zoe Carter is a luminous writer with a dramatic story to tell. With wisdom, poetry and dark humor, Zoe describes her ailing mother's courageous decision to end her life. In years to come, plenty of sons and daughters will face the same moral and practical dilemmas as Zoe's family; Imperfect Endings, with its wit and love, will provide an invaluable resource, as well as remain a fascinating, fabulously compelling read." e"Jennifer Finney Boylan, author of She's Not There and I'm Looking Through You, eoeCartere(tm)s memoir about her terminally ill mothere(tm)s decision to end her own life becomes a bittersweet tale of how Carter and her sisters coped with their mothere(tm)s botched efforts, their own sibling rivalries, the ongoing controversy over assisted suicide, and the hard, final task of acceptance.e e"Elle, eoeThe questions that rise from her story are urgent, important and timelyesharply focused, engaged with essential ethical questionsethe end of the book is so full of grace and acceptance that one might forget the memoir began with such urgent, roaring questions.e e" San Francisco Chronicle, "I could quote from the book all day. . . but instead I'll just recommend that those intrigued by the subject spend a little time with the ailing but ferocious Margaret and her daughters. A decision to die can sound romantic or it can sound repugnant. Carter shows us what it was like in reality."- Paula Span, The New York Times.com, " Imperfect Endings raises difficult questions about love and loyalty, but it is written with such style and sympathy that it is difficult to put down." -- San Francisco Chronicle.com, "Zoe Carter is a luminous writer with a dramatic story to tell. With wisdom, poetry and dark humor, Zoe describes her ailing mother's courageous decision to end her life. In years to come, plenty of sons and daughters will face the same moral and practical dilemmas as Zoe's family; Imperfect Endings, with its wit and love, will provide an invaluable resource, as well as remain a fascinating, fabulously compelling read." --Jennifer Finney Boylan, author of She's Not There and I'm Looking Through You, "Carter's memoir about her terminally ill mother's decision to end her own life becomes a bittersweet tale of how Carter and her sisters coped with their mother's botched efforts, their own sibling rivalries, the ongoing controversy over assisted suicide, and the hard, final task of acceptance."--Elle, "In her wise and moving memoir, journalist Zoe Carter tackles a difficult subject -- her mother's decision to end her own life after years of severe illness. Under what circumstances can her family make peace with this choice? Many of us will find ourselves facing this kind of dilemma as our parents move towards death, and I cannot imagine a better guide than this thoughtful, compassionate book." --Julie Metz, author of Perfection: A Memoir of Betrayal and Renewal, "I love this book! Zoe Carter has taken what could be a very sad story and turned it into something beautiful and incredibly insightful. Her portrayal of her mother is wonderful, and reveals in moving and illuminating detail a slice of Washington life." -Kate Lehrer, author of Confessions of a Bigamist: A Novel, "In her wise and moving memoir, journalist Zoe Carter tackles a difficult subject -- her mother's decision to end her own life after years of severe illness. Under what circumstances can her family make peace with this choice? Many of us will find ourselves facing this kind of dilemma as our parents move towards death, and I cannot imagine a better guide than this thoughtful, compassionate book." -Julie Metz, author of Perfection: A Memoir of Betrayal and Renewal, "An engaging and insightful tale of familial love, understanding, and forgiveness, shot through with a surprising amount of wit." -- The Boston Globe, "Articulate and exceptionally written, focusing on humor and emotional honesty. . . . It's quite a wonderful experience to read about Margaret's life and, in the end, [ Imperfect Endings ] becomes a tribute to a lovely woman who made a brave choice. . . . If you read this, you will never forget it." --Bookreporter.com, "I love this book! Zoe Carter has taken what could be a very sad story and turned it into something beautiful and incredibly insightful. Her portrayal of her mother is wonderful, and reveals in moving and illuminating detail a slice of Washington life." Kate Lehrer, author of Confessions of a Bigamist: A Novel, "In her wise and moving memoir, journalist Zoe Carter tackles a difficult subject -- her mother's decision to end her own life after years of severe illness. Under what circumstances can her family make peace with this choice? Many of us will find ourselves facing this kind of dilemma as our parents move towards death, and I cannot imagine a better guide than this thoughtful, compassionate book." Julie Metz, author of Perfection: A Memoir of Betrayal and Renewal, "I could quote from the book all day. . . but instead I'll just recommend that those intrigued by the subject spend a little time with the ailing but ferocious Margaret and her daughters. A decision to die can sound romantic or it can sound repugnant. Carter shows us what it was like in reality."--Paula Span,The New York Times.com
