Buyer Beware.... I too was screwed by ebay and paypal. I bought an item and decided I didn't like it and returned it within the parameters of the seller's return policy. Kept waiting for the return to hit my statement, no response from the seller, and when it didn't and I finally contacted ebay and paypal - whoops it was past 45 days - too bad, so sad, no help, sayonara, maybe you'll learn from this experience. Yep, that's what I got from them.
I've started using etsy and shop goodwill. Glad to hear about ioffer and bluejay - didn't know about them.